Mothering Beyond Biology: A Bond Grown in Our Hearts

There’s a little boy who has stolen my heart. He has a wild, crazy personality that keeps me on my toes, and the most beautiful eyes—just like his daddy’s. Every day with him is an adventure, and his excitement for life is absolutely contagious.

One of my favorite moments with him is when the world is still quiet. Early in the morning, when his daddy and my daughter are still asleep upstairs, it’s just the two of us early birds. We settle onto the couch, PBS Kids playing softly in the background, his tiny self snuggled into me while I sip my coffee. Those moments are calm and precious—a stark contrast to the whirlwind energy he brings when he’s up and running. I need my caffeine to keep up with him, but I wouldn’t trade it for anything.

I love how he lights up when he discovers something new. He yells my name with so much pride and excitement, ready to share his latest finding with me. It’s moments like these, when his joy becomes my own, that remind me of how lucky I am to be a part of his world.

He’s not my biological child, but he is my son in every way that matters. My love for him didn’t come all at once; it grew, deepened, and taught me so much along the way. My firstborn made me a mom, and this boy made me a bonus mom. Both are experiences I treasure, though neither journey was easy. Each has shaped me into the person I am today, and both are worth every struggle and sacrifice.

My kids are my whole world. They are the reason I keep pushing through, no matter what challenges come our way. My love for them is endless, and my hopes for their futures are even greater. For him, I dream of a life that’s brighter than anything we’re working through now. I hope he grows up knowing just how much he’s loved and how much he means to everyone around him.

Being his bonus mom has been one of the greatest blessings of my life. He’s wild, curious, and full of life, and I’m so grateful to be along for the ride. No matter what, I’ll always be here, cheering him on, celebrating his discoveries, and loving him with all my heart.